You can edit your shortcut that launches MxO to do some neat things. If you don't know how to edit a shortcut then please don't try it as I don't want to be responsible for your MxO no longer "working". Those in the know can test these undocumented parameters out from a CMD prompt to verify that they work.
Right Click on the shortcut for MxO > Properties > Target CMD line.

To skip entering your username and password:
C:\Program Files\Monolith Productions\The Matrix Online\launcher.exe -user <username> -pwd <password>

To skip entering your username and password, AND the patchnotes (goes directly to server selection):
C:\Program Files\Monolith Productions\The Matrix Online\launcher.exe -user username -pwd password -char charactername

I used to know the proper combination that would log you all the way into the game, even skipping the server selection screen (it would pick the first server/character in the list).  If I can remember how to do this I will post it.

Sadly there is no way to skip the EULA screen, although there is an option to do it (which doesn't work). Ah well if not for the lawyers I could give you a single click from desktop to jack in :-)

WSAECONNRESET
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Connection reset by peer.
    An existing connection was forcibly closed by the remote host. This normally results if the peer application on the remote host is suddenly stopped, the host is rebooted, the host or remote network interface is disabled, or the remote host uses a hard close (see setsockopt for more information on the SO_LINGER option on the remote socket). This error may also result if a connection was broken due to keep-alive activity detecting a failure while one or more operations are in progress. Operations that were in progress fail with WSAENETRESET. Subsequent operations fail with WSAECONNRESET.